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Drop a dress size without dieting.

How to drop a dress size without dieting with these simple style tricks

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As a Personal Stylist, I often work with women who have been through a transitional period and have put on weight because they have had a baby, been through a stressful event, suffered from illness or been through the menopause. 

The good news is that with a few simple styling tricks you can drop a dress size without dieting and straight away! Read on to find out how!

So, here are my top 5 style tips to drop a dress size without dieting

Dress for the body shape you have NOW

By learning to love and enhance the figure you have right now, you can feel confident and stylish regardless of your body type and size. You may plan to exercise more and/or/diet, but don’t wait until then to feel good about yourself!

If you don’t want to invest a lot of money in a new wardrobe, then try shopping at thrift stores, and on sites such as ‘Vinted’ or ‘Ebay’.

So, the principle of dressing for your body shape is to attract attention to the parts of your body you love and distract attention from the parts of your body you are less keen on.

For example, if you are a pear shape then wear a top with ruffles or shoulder pads to create visual balance. 

Also, make sure that you buy clothes that are the exact right size – not too tight (which will just showcase any lumps and bumps) and not too big (as shapeless baggy clothes will just make you look bigger!) 

Use stripes to create an optical illusion to make you appear taller and slimmer.

Horizontal stripes make you look bigger as they attract the eye from left to right to follow the lines and thus give the impression that something is wider/larger. 

If you have a large bust and you want to wear horizontal stripes, add an open jacket or cardigan, a long necklace or a scarf to create a vertical line and ‘break the area up’.

If you are an apple shape, you will want to avoid horizontal stripes altogether, a pear shape should wear horizontal stripes on the top half of the body and conversely an inverted triangle should only wear horizontal stripes on the bottom half of the body.

If you are an hourglass or a rectangle, you should be careful not to distort the perfect alignment of your shoulders and hips, so if you only wear horizontal stripes on one half of your body, balance this out with ruffles, thicker materials or other details on the other half.   

Unlike horizontal stripes, vertical stripes lengthen the body and give the impression of being thinner, so make sure to include vertical striped shirts, skirts and pants in your closet.

You can also create vertical lines with the cut of your clothing as long, open jackets also draw the eye downward to create the impression of a taller, thinner you.

Here are a few picks of vertically striped trousers and skirts, which will make you appear taller and slimmer.

High-Waisted trousers are also a great choice to make your legs seem longer and slimmer. Be wary of cropped trousers if you are ‘petite’ as they will make you seem shorter.

 Diagonal stripes deceive the eye and are a great way to create the illusion of curves. Combining vertical and diagonal stripes is also very flattering.

And, finally, colour-block dresses or skirts with darker side panels are also very slimming.

Choose dark colours to give the illusion of a slimmer you!

If you want to give the impression of being thinner or leaner, choose dark colours, – such as black, navy blue, plum….. and avoid light colours.

Combining dark colours such as navy and black, or burgundy and black is also visually slimming, as well as very chic, and a darker side panel (see above) is a great choice to drop a dress size!

Outfits that stick to just one color palette (monochrome) are the most flattering for all body shapes. 

Choose tops and bottoms of the same color to create an uninterrupted vertical line, making you look thinner and taller. 

The monochrome look is especially recommended for the Apple body shape and for ‘petite’ ladies. 

Neutral colors are very versatile and are great building blocks for your wardrobe. Layer with a long cardigan or a statement jacket and swap your sandals/shoes for boots as we head into the cooler months.

If you choose 2 colors of contrasting value, make sure to wear the darker color on the area you want to appear slimmer.

For example, if you are a pear shape, you should wear the lighter color on the top half and the darker color on the bottom, whereas if you are an inverted triangle then favour the dark color for tops.

Use accessories wisely

Belted looks are an easy option to transform your look and create a waist. 

As you can see above, sometimes, it’s not just what you wear but how you wear it! A few simple tweaks can transform your look, and adding a belt and some high heels make this outfit look totally different.

Make sure to wear the belt at your natural waist (the thinnest part of your body) and also opt for styles that include belts or patterns that draw in your eye at the waist.  Have a look below for some inspiration.

Bold accessories, such as large tote bags, will make you seem smaller by comparison. 

The above bag from Sarah Haran (see this post) would be a great example of this. Most of Sarah’s bags are modular and customisable. They feature removable tassels, front clutches, key chains, straps and chains so that you can change your handbag to suit your look, and transition easily from day to night.

You can use the code VELVET10 to get a 10% discount on anything on Sarah’s site! 

I hope you enjoyed this feature about how to drop a dress size without dieting, and found some useful tips to drop a dress size without dieting and straight away! You can also have a look here for more style inspiration.

44 Comments

  1. Laura says:

    A great post, thanks for sharing your tips with us. You can create a great illusion through the power of styling, I also did styling as a degree and agreed that clothes really can emphasis and highlight aspects you’re trying to stand out to draw our your favourite parts.

    Laura xo #SheHearts http://www.shehearts.net

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      Thank you Laura! I’m so glad you like the tips! xo

  2. Nisha Kulkarni says:

    Indeed true, dark colors give the illusion of a slimmer look. I often do this. Thanks for sharing amazing hacks.

    Nisha

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      Thank you Nisha! Glad you liked the tips xo

  3. The Exclusive Beauty Diary says:

    These tips are great. I know for trick with stripes, but I didn’t know rest. I really enjoy reading your post. Have a nice day.

    New Post – http://www.exclusivebeautydiary.com/2019/10/tom-ford-lip-color-rouge-levres-08_5.html

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      Thank you! I’m so glad you enjoyed reading the post 🙂

  4. Carmelatte says:

    I love the tips, especially the one with the belt! Great work, keep it up 🙂

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      Thank you! I’m glad you like the tips x

  5. Ashley says:

    Love these outfitting tips, babe- belting is SUCH a lifesaver when it comes to creating a waist!

    -Ashley
    Le Stylo Rouge

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      Yes, I couldn’t live without a wide selection of belts 🙂

  6. Carina says:

    Such a nice post!

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      Thank you x

  7. Lorna says:

    Dressing for your body makes a huge difference! I know that clothes too tight make you look bigger than you are! I hope you’re well and having a lovely October so far!

    Raindrops of Sapphire

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      Thank you Lorna! It really does make a difference – I’m sometimes tempted to squeeze into a dress that’s a bit tight but I know it’s just going to show off all the lumps and bumps I prefer to keep hidden xo

  8. Congrats on your new online mentoring program! These are great tips for dressing slimmer! Monochrome outfits always look great on everyone and adding a belt is definitely a gamechanger!

    Jill – Doused in Pink

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      Thank you Jill! I don’t think I ever go out without a belt! It’s a real game changer for me! xo

  9. Carrie @ Curly Crafty Mom says:

    These are all great tips! It is nice to know something as simple as color or even patterns can make all the difference!

    Carrie
    curlycraftymom.com

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      I’m glad you found the tips useful, Carrie xo

  10. Ivana Split says:

    Great tips. Dressing for our body type can make us feel really good about ourselves. I love your tip about adding a belt. I also like high rise items because they elongate us.

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      Yes, thank goodness for belts! I don’t think I ever leave home without one 🙂

  11. Ruth Josey says:

    These are great tips, Julia! It especially gets the point across with the leopard print skirt worn two ways. In the first photo, she looks like a much larger lady than in the second one – pretty amazing!

    Ruth

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      Thank you Ruth! I’m glad you liked the tips xo

  12. jodie filogomo says:

    Great ideas Julia. I love the comparison with the belt. It’s always so helpful to actually see the difference.
    XOXO
    Jodie

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      Thank you Jodie! I’m glad you found it helpful xoxo

  13. Amy Ann Arnold says:

    These are such great tips, and I love your visuals to help!

    Amy Ann
    Straight A Style

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      Thank you Amy Ann! I’m so glad you enjoyed it xo

  14. Laura says:

    These look so good tips and styling can add so much to the outfit and how you look x

    Laura

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      Thank you Laura! I’m glad you like the tips x

  15. Rach says:

    These are great tips and I love that it requires no change to my diet!

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      Yes, that’s the best bit! I don’t believe in dieting – just styling 🙂

  16. Hilda Smith says:

    Wonderful post Julia with great tips for everyone.

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      So glad you think so, Hilda 🙂

  17. Radi says:

    Love the tips you have given here because they truly work.
    Feeling great through fashion without having to go on a crazy diet!

    http://www.fashionradi.com

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      Yes, I’m all in favour of anything that doesn’t involve dieting 🙂

  18. Amy Aed says:

    This is such an interesting post and definitely something I could see coming in handy.

    Have a great week 🙂
    Amy x Wandering Everywhere

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      I’m glad you found it interesting, Amy x

  19. Thanks for the tips hun.

    Xoxo
    Lovely
    http://www.mynameislovely.com

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      Glad you like them 🙂

  20. Kathrine Eldridge says:

    These are amazing styling tips Julia! My fave trick is diagonal stripes!

    https://www.kathrineeldridge.com

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      Thank you Kathrine! Diagonal stripes are a really good way to deceive the eye, but I don’t think I’m ever seen without a belt! x

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      I’m glad 🙂

  21. Your tips are really good!
    xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena

    1. The Velvet Runway says:

      Thank you Rena x

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